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THINK BEFORE YOU HIT SEND

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One day I was at work, fat, dumb, and happy, and one of my partners observed that “That’s weird!”

I asked what was weird, and was directed to peruse my agency e mail.

Having done so, I noted an epistle, at length, railing against the fact that (among other ”failings” of this organization), a soul who had been hired on the order of a month prior to this bulletin, from a temp agency, as a temp agency employee at that, was denied the opportunity to seek a promotion, verily, before said soul’s probationary period had been successfully completed, and that THIS WAS NOT RIGHT! (or, something like that).

The rest of the homily read as a catalogue of woe, painfully detailed, regaling one and all (everybody encompassed within the set of “Send All”) with a detailed account of how this organization was The Heart Of Darkness, thoroughly lacking in Respect for Employees, and displaying a shocking lack of understanding of How One Ought To Treat Folks!

Or, at least, that is what I recall from the notice. That, and The Narrator was DONE!.

One of my partners wondered, out loud, if this was the single cleverest pathway to steady employment, that they had ever encountered.

And, after reflection, considered that to be unlikely.

Another suggested that the temp agency employing this soul (however briefly) might take some time for the burning of their ears to heal, once the scorching telephone call from our administration to theirs was concluded.

I wondered about this soul’s previous career trajectory. “So, Insert Name Here, were you really a master sergeant once you had completed BASIC FREAKING TRAINING? Had you achieved the rank of captain, about the time you were no longer the probie on your fire department’s engine company? Just how meteoric has your previous career path been, such that you come to us from a freaking temp agency? Please, explain it all to me, but use little words, and go slowly. I don’t want to miss any of your tale!”

PRO TIP: The more strongly you are thinking, “THAT will show ’em!”, the more likely it is that you will NOT like the consequences of “showing them!”

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LAWDY, YET ANOTHER SKYWARN STORY!

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So, TINS, TIWFDASL…well, Ok: I was done Fighting Disease And Saving Lives one evening, and was driving home. The weather report promised high winds, chance of tornadoes. I phoned TDW-Mark II, and appraised her of same. She acknowledged, and responded that she would monitor the fire dispatch on her HT (handy-talkie).

I suggested that she monitor the local Skywarn Ham repeater online. Since we live a couple of dozen miles from that repeater, hearing it clearly, let alone being able to speak on it was not so likely to happen. On the other hand, I was able to hit it reliably from my vehicle with the rooftop antenna and 50 watt mobile radio I had installed therein.

She did so. Since it was RIFAO (Raining…), I found that driving anywhere above a speed of, say 25 miles per hour on the expressway seemed foolhardy. That insight suggested that attending to my driving likely was a bright idea. Well, that and monitoring the Skywarn repeater, myself.

While I was en route, I heard calls about trees down, and high winds, and other exciting things. I happened to see one other driver abruptly change lanes, and, as I followed suite, I observed what had likely made him think that was a good idea: there was a tree down, intruding well into the “high speed” (you should pardon the expression) lane.

I figured that this might be a good thing for public safety folks to know, and so I communicated this, along with my location, to the Ham running the net.

Somewhat farther on, I noted that there was a considerable amount of water standing in the traffic lanes. Again, I passed this tidbit along to Net Control, and my location as well.

Still farther on, I came across yet another tree almost across the expressway, and again communicated that fact (and the fact’s location) to Net Control.

Shortly afterwards, I approached my exit, and signed out of the weather net.

Once I had arrived home, TDW-Mark II informed me that she had found it very helpful, monitoring the weather net, as every time I had noted a hazard as well as my location, she had an update regarding my progress home.

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Weather Spotter Deja-Vu: Ham radio at Fort Custer State Park.

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This is a repeat of a post from Feb 2020. Another memory stimulated by Skywarn/Weatherspotter class

So, TINS©, TIWFDASL©…well, Ok, I wasn’t, really. TDW-Mark 1, our kids, and I were away on vacation, camping in Custer State Park, in South Dakota. TDW-Mark 1 had planned on a drive across the northern tier of states, culminating in a visit to Mount Rushmore, The Crazy Horse Memorial, and generally seeing the sights of Not The Un-Named Flyover State. So, there we were, cleaning up after dinner, and the air got surprisingly still, and felt, well, “heavier”. There had been thunderstorm warnings earlier in the afternoon on the broadcast radio, and I figured that a little visit to Ham Radioland was in order.

I turned the car on, powered on the amateur radio, and set the radio to one of the several Ham Radio repeaters in the area of the park. TDW-Mark 1 wandered over to see what her husband was up to.

What I was up to, was taking notes on the “weather net” in progress. There were reports of rotation on the observed thunderstorms, and occasional reports of funnel clouds. TDW-Mark 1 decided that it would be clever to get all the clean up done, and everything put away. She corralled the kids, and set them to work.

One of the other campers wandered over, likely thinking that I had found “The Game” on the radio, and appeared surprised that I did NOT have the broadcast radio on, in my vehicle.

“Whatcha listening to ?”

“The local radio amateurs are weather spotting, and calling their reports. Some of them have seen funnel clouds, others have seen rotation in some of the thunderstorms that they have seen.”

“What’s that mean?”

“That it is very likely that one of these storms may touch down, and the folks near there will have a tornado to call their very own!”

“That sounds like it could be bad!”

“Yep. That could be very bad.”

Right around this point in the tutorial on Weather Spotting In America, And Amateur Radio’s Role Therein, TDW-Mark 1 returned, both to inform me that our campsite had been battened down (or, as battened down as a pop-up camper was going to get, anyhow), and inquire as to what was my brilliant contingency plan in the event that all our little family was to be offered a trip to Oz, by Thor himself.

I had noticed, upon our arrival, that the bathrooms appeared to be very substantially built. Fine brick structures seemed well suited, in my estimation, to the task of sheltering my family from the storm. I so instructed TDW-Mark 1. “If it appears that we are going to get heavy weather, we will hit the showers, select a toilet in the middle of the building, and call it home for as long as necessary.”

“Any sign that things are heading our way?”

“Presently all the funnels, and all the rotation are to our east, and northeast, so we are unlikely to catch any of it. If they close the weather net in the next several hours, we ought to be clear.”

The other camper, overhearing all this, began to turn his head, just like at a tennis match, goggle eyed at our seemingly tranquil acceptance of the potential of holing up in a toilet against some tornado or other. “Aren’t you guys scared at all by this?”

TDW-Mark 1 had his answer. “What good would that do? He’s a medic and ER nurse, I’m an ER nurse, he’s keeping an ear on the weather for us. Tell you what: keep an eye on our campsite. If you see us scurrying to the bathrooms, gather your family and join us, because it is unlikely that we all will catch the trots simultaneously!”

The look on his face was nearly priceless.

Even better? The fact that we heard the Skywarn Net stand down, around a hour later.

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IT: RTFM. HEALTHCARE: PATFQ

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(Read The Freaking Manual)(Please Answer The Freaking Question)

TINS, TIWFDASL some time ago, and I interviewed this soul.  

(Me) “How long have you been sick?”

(Them) “Well, all my kids were sick last week.”

(Me) “So, how long have you been sick?”

(Them) “I guess it was going around the school, last week.”

(Me) “So, how long have you been sick?”

(Them) “My (wife)(husband) was sick all last week.”

(Me) “So, how long have you been sick?”

(Them) “ Oh- do you mean, how long have I been sick?”

(Me) “So, how long have you been sick?”

(Them) “Uh, around 3 days.”

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“It’s Natural!”

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Long ago, and far away, I was working in a clinic, and my partner had the opportunity to chat with a soul who reported vomiting several times a day, for several weeks. During her interview, she determined that her friend reported that he had been smoking marijuana for, lo, these many years. He reported an abundance of marijuana intake every day.

As an aside, let us recall that there is this thing, known as “cannabis hyperemesis syndrome”. While the folklore of marijuana asserts that it is useful for nausea and vomiting, excessive use can elicit vomiting. Similarly, overuse of Tylenol or Motrin for headache, can elicit headaches.

So, my friend, knowing this, counseled this soul that ceasing marijuana use would resolve his vomiting.

He was not seeing it. He asserted that he had been using marijuana, multiple times a day, for years and years, and had never had a problem with nausea or vomiting.

She replied that this problem develops after some duration of frequent use.

Her correspondent replied, “That cannot be true. Marijuana is natural! It grows out of the ground!”

I observed that poison ivy is natural, it, also, grows out of the ground. I speculated that, should I roll him a blunt of poison ivy, would he consider firing it up, and breathing the resultant fumes?

Should he consider such, I would encourage that he wait for me to exit the room and seal the door, before he put fire to paper.

Please.

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Weather Spotting-At Home- Part 2

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Here is another Skywarn/ Weather Spotter class deja-vu’.

So, TINS (This Is No Shit), TIWFDASL (There I Was, Fighting Disease And Saving Lives), at work as a day shift ER RN in BFE Community Hospital. This was years and years ago-decades, really- and TDW and our (at that time) two kids were in town, and she stopped by to visit briefly.

The clerk told me that they were here, and I strolled out into the parking lot to say hello. Once there, I observed that the skies over our little rural town were a sickly shade of green. Not good. Very not good.

I shepherded my wife and kids into the hospital, and directed TDW to take the kids into the bathroom, conveniently located across the hallway from the department, and, for bonus points, was removed by a storage room from the outside wall.

Just about the time I got my family situated, our direct line to sheriff dispatch rang, informing us that there was a tornado warning, and we-all of us, staff, patients, guests and all- needed to take shelter immediately.

Our charge nurse paged the warning overhead to the rest of the hospital, and the rest of us notified the waiting room denizens to stay put, and away from the windows and doors. We were blessed that the ER had no windows, and did have solid cinder block construction.

Once the all clear was called, I retrieved my family from the bathroom, and walked them out to TDW’s vehicle.

When I got home that evening, she regaled me with her observations. Along the route that we all took every time we went to town, there was a full sized barn, that the storm had moved off it’s foundations.

Contemplate what those winds would have done to a sedan with a woman and two children inside.

A bit farther out into the county, a mobile home dealer had several of his display models rolled over onto their sides. One wound up in the roadway.

Contemplate, oh, let’s say, a sedan with a woman and two children, re-enacting the house-on-the-witch scene from The Wizard of Oz.

I found that prospect to be, let us term it, “unappealing”.

Another stroke of good fortune lay in the fact that OUR mobile home came through unscathed.

Am I paranoid if I react as if Fate was plotting to get me? Or my family?

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Weather Spotting- At Home!

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Today, TDW-Mark II and I took a refresher Skywarn/weather spotter course. She and I are both amateur radio operators (“Hams”), and weather spot as a way to serve our communities.

That class reminded me of a couple of stories, that I have not, yet, told.

A long, long time ago, I was working midnights as an ER RN, some 25-30 miles west of my home. On one particular night, the weather forecast predicted thunderstorms. Since it was summer, this was unsurprising.

Many hours into my 12 hour shift, we had cleared the house, and completed our housework. I was idly staring out of the window into the parking lot, from our waiting room, and noticed that it appeared to be kind of windy.

That was resolved, as it became very windy. Then, it became exceedingly windy, and our sign indicating that patients should park over thataway, was blown clean over.

I suspected that this indicated winds much stronger than our baseline, and, seeing the waiting room TV flash an alert of some sort across the screen, noted that there was a high wind warning in place, indicating that the winds were moving from west to east. Winds were reported to around 100 mph to my west.

Hmm. That meant that my family was downwind of this event, and, since a couple of my children slept in a bunk bed in front of a window, suggested that I ought to awaken my wife and have her move the children, gosh, away from the window which might well become shrapnel in a serious, no-crap hurricane force wind.

So, I phoned home. This was pre cell phone, so I rang the house phone. No answer.

I called again. No answer.

I called again. My oldest son, 13 years old at this point, had a paper route, and got up way before the crack of dawn to get his papers organized. I directed him to awaken his mother, right now.

He demurred, citing the fact that it was way, way early, and his mother likely anticipated awakening after, oh, gosh, 8 am. And it was not quite 0600 as we spoke.

I directed him to STFU, get his mother RFN, and stop screwing around. (I might have phrased that last just a leeetle bit differently, and in my summation paid homage to generations of sailors, longshoremen, and drill instructors and their collective contribution to The English Language.)

Once I had TDW-Mark I on the line, I summarized the foregoing, and directed her to move the kids, right stat like.

She glanced out of the window, and observed that it was “a little windy outside”.

I suggested that, should she desire to see “really freaking breezy”, just wait a few minutes, but MOVE THE GODDAM KIDS first.

Once I got home, a journey complicated by downed trees, downed power (and other) lines, and assorted firefighters, officers and utility workers guarding multiple downed lines, I observed, thankfully, that TDW’s vehicle appeared undamaged, all our windows appeared intact, and all the kids were eating breakfast in the kitchen, excitedly chattering about the storm winds that had passed them by.

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Odd Conversations

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A long, long time ago, in a un-named fly over state not so very far from here, I was dating a young woman, let us denominate her as “Elsa”, who was a nurse in one of the emergency departments into which we would run.

As things developed, she had such a lapse of judgment that she moved in to live with me.

One time, my partner and I were hanging out at her hospital, chatting in the parking lot, when another medic approached me.

“Do you know Elsa?” was his question, after initial greetings.

I replied, “Yeah, I guess I do, sort of.”

“Do you know her well?” asked my interlocutor.

I attempted to deflect him. “How well does anybody really know somebody else?”

He was not having it. “Do you know if she is seeing anybody?”

I was trying. Really, I was trying to gently deflect him, but I failed, with my answer, “I guess she is seeing somebody. At least, that is what I hear.”

My partner, who knew very well that Elsa and I were An Item, attempted to stifle his grin.

The inquisitive fellow persisted. “Do you know if she is seeing anybody, steadily?”

I answered, “Yeah, I suppose it is kind of steady.”

Powering straight ahead, he asked, “Well, is it serious?”

I was done with subtle. “Serious? Well, we like to think that it is serious!”

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Today’s Tangents

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Yes, today I actually counseled a two year old that he should not run around my exam room.

It was every bit as helpful as you would imagine.

ON ANOTHER TOPIC: A long, long time ago, I nursed in an ICU, on nights. It happened that many of my colleagues smoked. Most of them smoked several times a night, heralded by the question, “Would you watch my patient(s) for a few minutes for me, while I go out to smoke?”

What followed was that the nurse in question would exit the department, only to return on the order of 20 minutes later.

This would repeat nearly every hour. It progressed to the point that several of us who were non smokers, suggested that we ought to take up smoking in order to have a 20 minute break every hour.

One time I was speaking with the department manager, and suggested that, should hospitals never hire smokers, the units would find that their productivity would rise around 30%.

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Learning Is Exciting

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The other day, the conservation club to which I belong had a rifle shoot, something along the lines of “It’s Sunny And Sixty, And Winter Has Been Long And Grey, So Let’s Get Out And Shoot!”

With a shorter title.

One of the guys had brought along a borescope, and offered to give me a look at my bore.

Oops! Learning time! There was an abundance of collected stuff, along with what appeared to be rust.

My cleaning regimen had, for a couple of years, been to employ a ropelike cleaning product, which featured bristles as well as a fabric cleaning area, running same down my bore several times, and calling it good.

Which, evidently, it very much was NOT! So, after that meet, in which I both sucked berramuch as well as learned other things that need further attention by me, I took my rifle home and gave it a diligently cleaning employing a bore brush, cleaning jag, and MULTIPLE patches, and MULTIPLE rounds of same, repeated the next day, only to find today, Day Three, the above.

The top patch is my first solvent soaked patch of the day. The second is the dry patch, immediately after the first, and the bottom patch is the second solvent soaked patch.

I see that I have my work cut out for me. I also see that the rope-bristle-swab thingie is for field cleaning only, and no longer to be confused with, ya know, real CLEANING of my bore.